i wan to be a friend who understands
hmm..
For me.. i think understanding a friend is very important.. if ever i realise that a friend turely understands me.. this is when i'll trust that friend of my wholely.. i do not trust those who don understands me. And i found myself keen to understand my friends to the extend that maybe.. i understand them more than they understand themselves.. hahax. i find it interesting to know more bout a friend. not just the outerside of them.. but to know them inside out. =)
understanding.. it would mean that i, myself may not only know superficial things my friends fancy.. but a more in depth kinda understanding.. hmm. is like even if they don verbally lay out i'll still be able to somehow..weirdly know wad's on their mind. like a psychic. yeah
and. i can too help them understand themselves. cool? hahax
i'm a weirdo who loves observing ple's actions, speech, emotions,expressions, and loves understanding them through my own observation and daily conversations wif them =)
i dare say i'm quite good at judging a person's character through eye contact ,actions and speech.hahax. ok fine.. who dont. yea wadver.
"understanding" is a very imp element in frendship.
spoke at : Monday, August 29, 2005